Men 1. Overcoming Sexual Temptation. - The Fundamentals of Overcoming Sexual Tempation. Most physically and psychologically healthy men (even good Christian men!) live in a state of perpetual sexual temptation. Many people MISunderstand the difference between Temptation and Lust (it is a HUGE difference). They are completely different things. Most men are taught to deal with this in one of three ineffective, often backfiring ways: Denial, Resist, Hide. This introduces the idea of Embrace, Elevate, Expand (using the older term of Spread).

Men 2. Sex and Sexuality. - Male Sexuality does not have a female equivalent. This lesson also talks about "The Oops Ultimatum" and the best, effective response of a Betrayed Spouse AND the Standard Offer to be made by the Betrayer. It talks about Real Love, especially "Real Love of a Man" by a woman. Most women do not understand that they are not loving their man as well as they think they are! This handout includes a powerful note from an Agathos Woman.

Men 3. Darkness in Men. - It is NOT what you think. Talks a little about what boys should be taught about masturbation. Male Sexuality is often expressed darkly, but it is not darkness. Masculine Sexuality is at the Heart of much of the Best in Men. It is also a huge part of men's ambition and leadership.

Men 4. Feminine Beauty. - This lesson teaches on how to enjoy the beauty of women while avoiding treating them as sex objects. Explaining some of how men are attracted to Feminine Beauty (even just parts!) and the difference between "arousal" and "erection." THEN it educates Men on how to best and more fully appreciate and fully experience the Art of a Woman's Beauty. It talks about Bikini Beauties. Jelena Abbou was used as an example (and yes, we had pictures of her on the screen). Advice on Connecting with women.

Men 5. Embrace, Elevate, Expand. - This lesson discusses in Embrace, Elevate, Expand in greater detail. It discusses how to use EEE to become a more Masculine Man worthy of the most amazing, worthy woman. This technique is effective for any temptation, including temptation to adultery or habitual pornography use.

Men 6. Authentic Masculinity 1. - This lesson focuses on common "stupid manhood ideas." Often boys and a surprising number of adult men were taught one or more of these stupid ideas of manhood. The lesson then talks about some of the unattractive parts of being Male that Men live with and Woman need to know! It intoduces the idea that most men are 50% despised, 30% tolerated, and only 20% loved by the women in their lives - but Men take the deal because it's the best deal on the table. (It does not need to be so!) THIS IS A GREAT LESSON TO TEACH BOYS ABOUT MANHOOD.

Men 7. Authentic Masculinity 2. - This lesson addresses Authentic Masculinity from Stu Webber's Four Pillars of a Man's Heart, John Eldredge's Wild at Heart, and the Bible. Then this lesson focuses on Adulthood. 1. Responsibility. 2. Will Power. 3. Self-Leadership. 4. Making a LIFE (not just making a living). Finally, we explore Manhood. 1. Knight Protector. 2. Noble Gentleman. 3. Value Producer. 4. Example Leader. THIS IS ANOTHER GREAT LESSON TO TEACH BOYS ABOUT MANHOOD.

Men 8. Drawing and Holding Lines 1. - Most men do not have a "line." This lesson discusses the concept of Having a Line and where to Draw the Line in our physical relationships with women - since single, dating, or married - there ARE other women around us! It discusses the concepts of Back Doors and Language of Behavior.

Men 9. Drawing and Holding Lines 2. - "Do not be 'That Guy'" is a critical concept so we do not end up some woman's bad memory. This lesson discusses that, and the impact of crossing lines, Reasons to Hold the Line, and times of vulnerability (it includes things we might not always think about). It emphasizes the idea of Honor The Words. It ends with "Love Her More Than You Want Her."

Men 10. Drawing and Holding Lines for Married Couples. - Marriage does not mean "Anything goes." Sex is not a line, it is a Category of Behavior. Married Couples need to have lines. There are many issues even when you are married of Lines to be established.

Men 11. Pornography 1 - The Pornography EFFECT is the Problem, not the Pornography. What is it? What does it do? The Pornography Effect does NOT require pornography to catch you. Is Pornography EVER "okay"? Yes, but there are some guidelines and things to watch out for. What is "normal"? (note: I do not even mention pornography as a moral issue. If you say porn is immoral, only people who already agree are listening - and then they are not listening to anything else you have to say. So just ignore that argument. It's a non-starter. And here's a big question: How sure are you that it IS "immoral" and how can you back that up?)

Men 12. Pornography 2 - More on Pornography, and one suggested website for pictures of hot women - for a reason. It gives you a great view of very hot women scantily clad - but also has a special "perspective check" built in to the website! When you watch pornography, what are you really watching? Some thoughts on cosmetic procedures (in the audio, not the notes). What should women do? Are you kidding me? No. I'm not kidding...

Men 13. Self Gratification - 99% of men do it. Even 40% of men in a sexual relationship do it. Women do it. How do you use it for training your sexuality so it helps, not hurts. A few safety tips for both men and women.

Men 14. Closing Thoughts - Asserting Masculinity as opposed to Defensive Masculinity, Aggressive Masculinity and Passive Masculinity. Vocabulary of Sexual Relationships: Marital Sex, PreMartial Sex, NonMarital Sex, ExtraMarital Sex. Awesome Sex When I'm Married. The Importance of Mothers and Sisters. What does "Sex" mean to you?

THE FULL SET OF HANDOUTS

Bonus Lesson: Ladies and Gentlemen. Some guidelines for being a Lady or a Gentleman.